A book about intentional living

Don’t wait until your funeral to discover what your life stood for.

Death is the teacher. Life is the subject. The Epic Eulogy Method is an invitation to examine the story you are living—and begin shaping it while it is still yours to write.

Your life. Your story. Told your way.

The Epic Eulogy Method book cover, showing a meditating figure on a raft beneath a curling wave

01 — The book

This is not a book about preparing to die.

It’s about deciding how you want to live.

No one hears their own eulogy, but the way they live determines what it will say. A eulogy gathers the meaning of a life after it is over. The Epic Eulogy Method brings that reflection into the present. It asks you to pay attention now, while there is still time to choose what your story becomes.

You will look honestly at where you have been, release what no longer belongs to you, clarify what you want your life to stand for, and take practical steps toward becoming the person you hope people will remember.

02 — The method

A life examined.
A story chosen.

The word epic does not only mean impressive. It also names a journey—a life shaped by trials, choices, losses, discoveries and returns.

  1. E
    Examine

    Look honestly at the life you are living.

  2. U
    Understand

    Recognize the forces, wounds and gifts that shaped you.

  3. L
    Let Go

    Release what has finished teaching you.

  4. O
    Own Your Legacy

    Decide what you want your life to stand for.

  5. G
    Grow Into the Story

    Close the distance between intention and action.

  6. Y
    Yield Your Gift

    Offer what only your life can give.

  7. The Return

    Come back to your life with clearer eyes and deliberate purpose.

03 — What remains

Five ways to measure a life.

01

Love

Who did you love, and did they know it?

02

Courage

Where did you choose truth over fear?

03

Authenticity

How fully did you become yourself?

04

Presence

Were you here for the life you were given?

05

Humanity

What did your life make possible for others?

Peter MacKenzie Hammond wearing a flat cap

04 — The author

Peter MacKenzie Hammond

“I have spent more than a decade as a funeral celebrant, sitting with families after someone they love has died.”

Again and again, I have watched people discover the true shape of a life through the stories left behind. I created The Epic Eulogy Method to bring that clarity forward—to help people hear what matters before their story is finished.

This work is personal. It is grounded in illness survived, grief carried, love found, and the stubborn belief that we do not have to wait for a crisis to begin living deliberately.

05 — The journey continues

More than a book.

First

The Book

A personal journey through reflection, release, legacy and intentional living.

Coming soon

Next

The Course

A guided way to work through the method at your own pace, with exercises that turn insight into action.

In development

In person

Experiences

Small, immersive workshops that bring the method into nature, conversation and shared ritual.

Future offering

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